The season of waiting and preparation can be both challenging and beautiful. I won’t sugarcoat it—waiting is hard, and I’ve never been a fan of it. In an attempt to avoid facing the discomfort, I’ve kept myself busy with countless activities, trying to distract myself. But no matter how much I preoccupy my time, the truth remains: waiting is uncomfortable.

I’ve always been a go-getter. When I set my mind on something, I chase after it with everything I have. I don’t like feeling stuck or stagnant. But lately, I’ve realized that life isn’t just about the next goal, the next achievement, or the next big thing. Life is happening right now, in the in-between moments, in the pauses, in the preparation.

I won’t pretend to have life all figured out—I don’t, and honestly, I don’t think anyone does. If we did, things would probably look a lot different. Each of us has glimpses of what life is through our experiences, but they’re just that—glimpses, not the full picture. And you know what? I’m starting to believe that we’re not meant to figure it all out alone. We are all connected, not just to each other, but to the Source of life itself—God. In that connection, there’s wisdom, peace, and clarity if we choose to seek it.

I used to compare myself to others, wondering why their journey seemed to be moving faster than mine. But now, I’m learning to shift my perspective. Instead of comparison, I choose inspiration. Instead of frustration, I choose trust. I truly believe that what we ask for, we receive—but not always in the way we expect. If we ask to understand life, we’ll go through experiences that teach us, both joyful and painful. If we ask to enjoy life, we’ll be given opportunities for joy—but they might not look the way we imagined.

And that’s okay.

God sees the whole picture when we only see a tiny part. He knows what’s ahead, and He hears every prayer, every whisper, every longing of our hearts. And the most beautiful thing? He wants the very best for us—always.

The hardest lesson I’m learning in this season is that God’s timing is not my timing. And that’s where faith comes in. Letting go of control is terrifying, but it’s also freeing. Because when I stop trying to force things to happen my way, I make room for God to do something greater—something beyond what I could imagine.

We are powerful, but only because He created us that way. Through Him, we are capable of incredible things. So I encourage you (and myself) to step back, breathe, and lean into God’s plan. Invite Him into every part of your life, trust Him through every season, and rest in His perfect timing. One day, you’ll look back and say, “Wow, that was my God at work.”

And when that moment comes, it will all make sense. 🙂

With love,

Soulful Perspectives